If you’re looking to meet someone, then you need to look online. There were 3.2 million using dating apps in Australia in 2021 and the figure is rising. Dating apps have revolutionised the way people meet and are now a necessity if you are looking for love.
Your online dating profile is your first impression. It is crucial that your profile stands out and gives a brief, but accurate, insight into you.
When you take the time to craft an impressive online dating profile, it not only attracts attention but also increases your chances of finding someone truly compatible.
I have put together a brief guide to help you capture the attention of your future partner.
1. Have great photos and make sure your leading image is the best
Your profile picture is the primary way someone judges whether you might be a match.
This has got to be slick.
If your pictures are too grainy, too serious, too filtered, over edited, hastily cropped .. with obvious traces of an ex – don’t expect high quality swipes.
Select a clear, high-quality photo where you're looking friendly and approachable. Avoid using heavily filtered or overly edited images, as they can give off an inauthentic impression. A genuine smile can work wonders in making you appear warm and welcoming.
The standard amount of photos for your profile is five – two showing what you like to do, two where you look cute and one sexy image.
2. Show your personality
Your profile should highlight your unique personality traits and interests. Stay away from using the word ‘I’ and don’t be boring. Add personality by weaving it in with your interests. Pick something unique about yourself and use that to introduce yourself.
Always check the spelling and grammar. Your profile is your first impression and needs to be your very best work.
It’s worth making the effort for your potential life partner.
3. Be honest and authentic
Authenticity is attractiveness. Be yourself to set the foundation for a truly genuine connection. Avoid the temptation to embellish or misrepresent yourself, it can lead to disappointment. Even things like age and height. Embrace who you are, the right person will love everything about you – the quirks and the imperfections – we all have them.
4. Be specific about what you’re looking for
Make sure you weave this into your profile. When you’re writing your profile, make sure you are always thinking about what you’re looking for ie. If you’d like to meet someone who follows a healthy lifestyle – let them know that in your profile. Make sure you’re clear about what type of relationship you are looking for. Do you want a friendship, something casual or something long term. Having clarity will helps you attract someone who is aligned with your values and goals.
A well-crafted profile is essential to showcasing your best self and being clear about your intentions. It’s important to regularly update your profile and stay open to new experiences. Keep these tips in mind for you online dating journey to increase your chances of finding a partner who complements you.